remove redundant Send impl for references
Also explain why the other instance is not redundant, move it next to the trait they are implementing, and out of the redundant module. This seems to go back all the way to 35ca50bd56, not sure why the module was added.
The instance for `&mut` is the default instance we get anyway, and we don't have anything similar for `Sync`, so IMO we should be consistent and not have the redundant instance here, either.
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